Alumni Essay 19

The Youth Lead KC program has truly played a major role in my growth as a person and leader. While participating, I was able to get hands-on learning that went beyond just the field trips. It also helped me grow personally and encouraged me to become more prominent in my community. I’ve always been a bit nervous about trying new things, but these experiences pushed me to try public speaking, work with so many different people, and take the lead on projects like our junior project.

For me, I’ve seen a lot of growth in self-compassion and confidence. Before the program, I was often quiet in groups of people I didn’t know and didn’t take the lead because I worried about being judged or making mistakes. The program’s trips that focused on self-knowledge and social skills helped me see many of my strengths, like empathy and creative problem-solving. They also showed me where I needed to improve, like being more assertive and putting myself out there. A big turning point was when I helped with a lot of the work for the junior project. At first, I stayed in the background because I knew others would have preferred to be in charge, and there were so many people who planned on working on it. As the project continued, I noticed that a lot of the work wasn’t being done, and we were running out of time. Eventually, it ended up being about 4-5 students who had to work on the project, and I had to take on a leadership role for one of the specific components. Taking on a role like that taught me that leadership is more about listening, working well with others, and taking charge when it’s needed rather than just being the loudest. By the end of the project, I felt much more capable, and while explaining it, I felt my public speaking had gotten so much better from where I started. Even though I was still shaking the entire time, this experience helped me realize that leadership is a skill you can build with practice and patience, not just something you’re born with.

I want to use what I’ve learned in the future, like in college and after. I’d really like to get involved in more community organizing and keep supporting organizations that provide access to education and community resources. The program’s focus on preparing for life after high school has inspired me to make the most of college. I plan to take on more leadership roles, allow myself to take up space, and possibly start projects that help more of my community. Whether I’m leading or working with others, I’ll use the resilience and teamwork skills I’ve gained to help others find their own leadership abilities.

For me, leaving a legacy means making a positive difference that lasts even after I’m gone. It’s not about getting credit for my actions, but helping others when they need it, allowing for differing opinions, and building a stronger and fairer community together. Youth Lead KC has taught me that even small actions, like helping a classmate or just being kind, can have a big impact on the world. I want to keep building on that by being a person who gives hope, strength, and confidence to make their own mark. My legacy won’t be about awards, but using my creativity and newfound voice to build stronger communities that will inspire others.